Protecting Your Options: Some men flirt with women primarily to get sex. However, if you put aside that possibility and flirt just to be friendly you are opening yourself to a wider range of opportunities. You may well end up with a new lover. Conversely, if that doesn’t work out, you could meet someone who becomes a good friend instead and who knows someone that might be more compatible. Keep your options open.
Personal Care Is Essential: Make sure your hair is clean and your body and breath smell good. You don’t have to douse yourself in after-shave. Take care of personal hygiene at the basic level. As like seeks like, dirty unwashed people will end up with dirty unwashed people! Fine if it suits you but if you are looking for something else, have a little class.
Personality Goes a Long Way: Women love being around charismatic men because they appeal to their best feelings. Get yourself into the right attitude for flirting and go for it. It takes a little confidence but, then again, practice still makes perfect.
Please Her Without Being Pushy: When you buy a woman a drink, that is all you are buying. Don’t expect her to fall at your feet. Sometimes it is nice just to send someone a drink, watch when they receive it and smile, then look away--then looking back again to show your interest. Don’t try to get a woman drunk. Wouldn't it be preferable to have someone desire you genuinely instead of having their senses obliterated by alcohol?
Pick Her Out of a Crowd: Don’t make the rounds in a group of women. No woman wants to feel that she is considered to be second best. Refrain from approaching one after another in the same group. You'll look like a loser and the women may think you are desperate. Even if you are, don’t show it.
Prefer Conversation First: Concentrate on the conversation, not on getting a date. Most women want to know what kind of person they are going out with. Make an effort to get to know her better before diving in for a date. This way, you will run less risk of being rejected when you do ask her.
Pick Your Compliments Carefully: Offer her only genuine compliments. There’s nothing worse than a guy who has a collection of bad lines (Excuse me, I seem to have lost my phone number and was wondering if I could borrow yours). Instead, notice something about her such as her beautiful nails, her bracelet, or the quality of her voice. Everyone has something about them worthy of a genuine compliment.
Pick Your Compliments Carefully: Offer her only genuine compliments. There’s nothing worse than a guy who has a collection of bad lines (Excuse me, I seem to have lost my phone number and was wondering if I could borrow yours). Instead, notice something about her such as her beautiful nails, her bracelet, or the quality of her voice. Everyone has something about them worthy of a genuine compliment.
Physical Contact Should Be Limited: Keep your hands to yourself and respect their space. Some women have no objection to ‘touchy feely’ encounters, whereas, others are horrified by it. Touching can be a lovely way to flirt, but should be confined to the arms or resting the hand just above the arms and not touching, until you know each other better. Test the personal space by moving closer, noticing the reactions, and then moving back a little to remove the threat.
Phone Her if She Gives You Her Number: If you ask for a phone number, be sure you use it. Flirting and meeting people is not about trophy hunting. It is about making a new connection and having fun. If you don't intend to use the number, don't ask. There’s nothing worse than giving out a phone number and not having someone call. If you asked for it, use it .
Practice, Practice, Practice: Be yourself. There’s no point in assuming a role you think someone wants you to play because you’ll get found out sooner or later. Be proud of who you are and if you aren’t sure how you are at your best, you might want to do some work on it.
Phone Her if She Gives You Her Number: If you ask for a phone number, be sure you use it. Flirting and meeting people is not about trophy hunting. It is about making a new connection and having fun. If you don't intend to use the number, don't ask. There’s nothing worse than giving out a phone number and not having someone call. If you asked for it, use it .
Practice, Practice, Practice: Be yourself. There’s no point in assuming a role you think someone wants you to play because you’ll get found out sooner or later. Be proud of who you are and if you aren’t sure how you are at your best, you might want to do some work on it.
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